Journey from introvert to extrovert

How I transfored from an  introvert to an extrovert person?

Hello there, this is me Sejal!! I hope all are doing well in their life.I thought to express or put my own journey of introvert to extrovert in front of you all.

Let me start by framing a quote written by me,

"Introvert is just a word in you,

it's not you who you are, it's a situation in which you are".

I was an introvert person till my school times,I don't used to communicate with everyone,because I had that misconception or you can say fear of judging how they will think of me if I speak something irrelevant will they reciprocate to me or they will ignore me,this is a really losing thought I had during my school time.I even hesitate to ask a question to teacher, hesitate to talk,hesitate to even share my tiffin even though we say "sharing is caring" but for me it was a cheesy thing at that point of time.

When the day was passing one by one,I was told by one of my teacher of you don't speak how can someone come to know who you are what is your identity,she said everyone is known by their speech even if it is wrong or right doesn't matter,because we all are here not to justify what we spoke is right or wrong,it's just the mentality of the person who always find an excuse to run away from the situations.

How can one know that, they are going to judge me on my thoughts, even though you haven't expressed it yet,you need some kind of demonstration until you speak, if you are trembling,then do communicate with your friends first and for communicating with them too you have to make friends always it start from you.with you.Take intitaive by building base that is make friends on not the basis of level on the basis of behaviour, because we get attached to those, from whom we get a similar type of vibe.

From that they I started communicating not only with friends, I started delivering speeches, started participating in the events too in the schools and won prizes and certificated that eventually boosted my self- esteem.

Now I can speak freely with anyone without hesitating without thinking what they will think about me.Its necessary to pull yourself together, you have to take steps otherwise the world is not going to serve you until you make a move.

This is how my journey was from an introvert to an extrovert.