Deal or Feel

Body shaming when we hear this word our mind start generating weird hormones that turn into frustration,anger and sometimes we feel to kill ourself right.These are the common symptoms that one feel when they are irritated by someone's harsh or unbidden words.First of all we should always be ready for such situations, which is usually going to arise, because these are such uncertain things that usually come up, keep in mind always the things start with you if you allow them to tease you then be ready so deal or feel the situation.

    Let me tell you I Sejal I'm too thin like a matchstick,from school to college people starts blaming me like hey keep 10 rupees dollar in your pocket, hey don't you eat or should I give you some of the grains,hey I think you lack maknutrients.These cheesy words can garm you right? No it's your mind that can garm you if you don't take seriously such things personally then how can one harm you, first of all no one can garm you or Destriy you without your permission. Always deal with it like a fighter in the ring.

  

 Talking about me I have never taken these things seriously in my life because I was told my mom already these are the people who is all talk and nothing more they'll talk about shits now and then they'll keep quite.

   

     Like every coun has 2 faces so similar to that there is good day and bad day.Now also there are still people sirround me who blame my parents for not taking good care of me,but I know it's genetics and it will be alright by the time,so Take it easy and tell the world that you are not afraid of anything they will badmouth about you.

     God has made everyone equal, is the pele who are discriminating one from another.we all have 2 ears,eyes,1 nose so why people think they are perfect and someone is not. Let me tell yall no one is perfect in the world either no one is happy all the time.Nkr every book have happy ending,not every movie have bad ending or vice versa similar to that why I mean why we take such things seriously, we are already dealing with alot of things so why.

    So basically my question is WHY WHY WHY ,ask yourself this question looking into the mirror.Why I'm taking it too seriously,don't ever affect yourself with such words.I know word from a mouth is such a powerful thing but still why we should get affected, we have alot of people around us who admire us,who take care of us , they accept you whatever and however you are nevermind. 

    Self acceptance is a very genuine and precious word for me that my mom insisted,my mom used to say self acceptance is much more important,no one in the world who is blabbering is going to be with you so let it be ,let yourself on a higher peak and cheer yourself as you are,express your emotions freely.

    Accepting the reality is all about you 

Neglecting it,will harm you.👍❣️